How Do You Know If Your XXX Date is Really Into You?

A lot of guys get all excited about going out on a xxx date. They think that all their juvenile fantasies of meeting Swedish goddesses are about to come true. While that is a possibility, chances are, you’re not going to be the guy that that fantasy will happen to. Seriously. I don’t mean to be the one to break this to you, but that’s just the reality.

Instead of setting yourself up for a fundamental personal disappointment by having such epic expectations, focus, instead, on something more real. Understand that a lot of women out there are overweight, and that’s perfectly fine. Chances are, you probably have a few extra pounds around your midsection as well. If you’re not perfect, you have no right to expect other people to be perfect. Let’s just get that out of the way because without that fundamental fact, it’s too easy to just go on a xxx date and screw things up. It’s too easy to go on these types of dates and completely misread your date.

Make no mistake about it, if you want to score and have a good time, you have to read your xxx date correctly. Unfortunately, if you have all sorts of unrealistic expectations, they are definitely going to get in the way of you getting an accurate read. In short, they will short circuit your perception and you end up saying the wrong things at the wrong time, to the wrong people, and the wrong results come about. Do you see how this works? So do yourself a big favor and pay attention to the following so you can know if your xxx date is really into you.

Body Language

If a woman is clutching her arms to the sides and her arms are crossed, she’s basically comforting herself. She feels that she is in an uncomfortable situation and in an unfamiliar territory, and deep down inside, she’s scared and apprehensive. This is a red flag. This doesn’t mean that you have no shot with her. What this does means is that you need to calm her down and reassure her.

You might want to crack a joke here and there. You might want to tell a very heartwarming story. You might want to step up your conversation skills and get her to open up. Do you see how this works? It’s all about getting her more comfortable.

Pay attention to body language. If she’s in a fetal position or she is not looking at you in the eye or she looks somewhat scared, all those little signals point to the fact that she is far from comfortable. Your job at that point in time is to make her feel more comfortable. This really isn’t rocket science.

Nonverbal Features

Pay attention to her facial expressions. This is especially important when you’re checking out profile pics on an adult dating site. You have to remember that when people say something, it’s not just the content of their words that matter. You also need to pay attention to when they say something, how they say it, and how quickly they say it. In other words, you need to look at all the different parts of the picture to get the whole picture.

Otherwise, it’s too easy to think that if she says she’s having a good time, then she is having a good time. You can’t be literal about it, otherwise, this is going to be your first and last xxx date with that female. If you want to be invited back to the party, you need to look at all her nonverbal and verbal signals so you can piece together the grand picture of what she’s really trying to say.

You have to remember that not everybody communicates the same way. A lot of people communicate in very weird ways. That’s just the type of world we live in. Instead of feeling upset that people are talking in an obscure or underhanded way, you just have to roll with the punches. You just have to get used to it and deploy certain strategies that would enable you to achieve more positive results.

It’s Not Just Sex

The whole point of going out on a xxx date is to have sex, okay? Let’s just get that out of the way. But with that said, you have to understand that a lot of females want you to show up again. They want to go out on a date with you again.

However, this kind of thinking rubs against their ego. They don’t want to be the person asking the guy out on another date. This is especially true if they just went out on a xxx date. So you need to pay attention to the signals she’s sending out so you can be the one to take the initiative to ask her out again.

Don’t jump to conclusions. Don’t freak out. Don’t think that just because she is giving out these signals that she wants to see you again that this automatically means she wants to be emotionally attached to you. Of course, the whole reason people go out on a xxx date is to have emotion-free sex. However, don’t equate or confuse the fact that she wants to see you again with wanting to become your girlfriend. Those are two totally different things. There’s no need for you to freak out.

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